Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Secrets of People Who Never Get Sick

Secrets of People Who Never Get Sick

Health

Secrets of People Who Never Get Sick

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It’s tempting to dismiss it as luck: Some people might catch a slight cold or suffer an occasiona l ache or pain now and then, but they never seem to suffer from flus, fevers and illnesses that send the rest of us diving under the covers for days. Despite centuries of scientific advances, doctors still can’t tell us definitively how to stay well. So why not look for solutions from the people for whom the common cold is, well, uncommon? Here, 10 surprising habits of those people who never get sick—and how you can adapt them to your own soon-to be healthier life. 
1. THEY STRESS LESS Researchers at Duke  University found that stress damages the immune system and the heart. Other studies suggest that it increases your chances of contracting bacterial infections, such as tuberculosis. There’s also evidence that learning relaxation techniques early on is crucial: A 2009 Stress in America Survey by Harris Interactive on behalf of the American Psychological Association found that stress is a top health concern for kids between nin th and 12th grades, and suggested that stress could do serious long-term damage if those children don’t learn to manage it. Of course, exercise is one of the best ways to chill out. A University of Southern California study found that when participants took a vigorous walk around a track, they reduced tension in their bodies by 20 percent. A diet rich in fruits and vegetables is also crucial, as is laughing: It releases endorphins in the body that act as natural stress busters. Plus, a good guffaw gives your heart muscle a workout. 
2. THEY SPRINKLE BREWER’S YEAST ON THEIR FOOD Just one tablespoon packs in most of the B vitamins you need each day, including thiamine, riboflavin, niacin, B6, folic acid and biotin. Without enough of these vitamins, the body isn’t able to metabolize carbohydrates, fats and proteins; the Bs are also essential for healthy hair, skin, nerves, blood cells, hormone-producing glands and a thriving immune sys tem. B vitamins help manufacture antibodies and white blood cells that make up the immune response. And in times of stress, the Bs can be depleted, which compromises your immunity. Sprinkle a tablespoon of brewer’s yeast over popcorn or cereal, mix it into soups or sauces (the taste goes especially well with split pea soup or any dish made with tomato sauce) or bake into quick breads and cookies. 
3. THEY EAT LESS. As far back as the 1930s, studies found that animals that were fed less lived twice as long. More recent research in humans has linked calorie restriction to lower incidences of age-related health problems, including cardiovascular disease, diabetes and Alzheimer’s. Participants in one study who ate 25 percent less than their usual amounts had lower overall cholesterol, LDL (“bad”) cholesterol, triglyceride levels and blood pressure. Keep in mind that calorie restriction is an easy diet to do unsafely, however. Star t by limiting simple sugars and flours, and pack your meals with dark leafy greens and other vegetables. You can find more tips on calorie restriction at crsociety.org or naturalhealthmag.com. 
4. THEY EMBRACE BACTERIA. OK, so no expert will tell you to toss a few dirt clods into the blender the next time you whip up some pesto, but research suggests that the move toward complete sterility in the modern age wasn’t necessarily more healthful. It appears that the path to increasing health is probably somewhere between the squalor of our ancestors’ environment and the hyper-cleanliness of the developed world. Bacteria and our bodies have a symbiotic relationship in which their presence helps our systems stay healthy and balanced. “Good” germs can improve your metabolism, enhance your immunity and reduce inflammation. Scientists at the University of California, San Diego, found that the more bacteria you have on the surface of you r skin, the better you combat inflammation. So go outside, have plenty of contact with Mother Nature and get dirty! And rather than scrub your foods raw, give them a quick rinse. 
5. THEY OPT FOR HERBAL REMEDIES. Although plant-based health aids have been long derided by the Western medical community, about onequarter of all prescription drugs are derived from plants. Herbal remedies (plants purported to have medicinal properties) are an integral part of traditional Chinese medicine, and what we know about plants’ abilities to heal is impressive: They can alleviate high blood pressure, stimulate the nervous system, destroy germs and boost the immune system. But you needn’t fill your medicine cabinet with supplements; something as simple as green tea can help improve your immunity and your health. Commercial green tea beverages have come under fire recently for unsubstantiated health claims, yet studies have shown that antioxidants in gree n tea called polyphenols have the potential to boost metabolism and burn fat, protect against liver disease, control blood sugar levels and lower LDL cholesterol. Skip pre-packaged bottled versions and sip unflavored loose-leaf green tea instead. 
6. THEY MAKE FRIENDS A PRIORITY. Studies show that people with strong friendships tend to have more robust immune systems and are less likely to succumb to infectious diseases. In 2008, Harvard University researchers found that positive social attachments might protect against memory loss and other cognitive disorders. A 1993 Swedish study of male blue-collar workers (who are at increased risk of heart disease, statistically) concluded that men with strong social support lowered their risk of cardiovascular disease; and a 2009 study in Buffalo, N.Y., found that those with few friends were most likely to suffer from heart disease, depression and anxiety. If you feel the need to boost your crony count, try th is little experiment for one week: Strike up at least two conversations every day with someone you haven’t talked to before. And aim to listen more than you speak; the more airtime you give someone, the more generous he or she will be with personal details. Also, keep the bellyaching to a minimum. Your tone can determine how often others will want to spend time and talk with you. 
7. THEY STAY Ph BALANCED. According to some practitioners of alternative medicine, the body is healthiest when its systems are functioning midway between completely acidic and completely alkaline (i.e., pH balanced). When pH levels fall below that midpoint, the body suffers from a condition called acidosis, which even in minor cases can cause fatigue, rapid breathing, stomach problems and confusion. Many experts say that the typical American diet, chock-full of meat and sugar, has created an epidemic of acidosis in the Western world. Most vegetables are alkalizing, ho wever, so eating them regularly can reduce your risk of being too acidic. Include lots of dark leafy greens, green beans, asparagus and carrots in your diet; other alkalizing foods to reach for include cucumbers, coconuts and avocados. 
8. THEY EAT GARLIC. Studies have shown that garlic can act as a powerful antioxidant and antibiotic, as well as cut the duration and the number of colds you catch. In addition, garlic has proved efficient in reducing blood pressure and triglyceride and cholesterol levels. Some experts say that garlic’s medicinal value lessens when it’s in a supplement form and recommend that you eat it fresh if you want to get garlic’s health benefits. 
9. THEY DETOX REGULARLY. Many chemicals used commonly today—such as phthalates, dioxins and PCBs—were absent from our environment a century ago. That might be why the rates of diseases (including cancer and liver disease) linked to toxic exposures are increasing, say experts. Although no long-term studies on the benefits of detoxification have been done, chances are good that your health will improve if you lower the level of synthetic chemicals present in your body. Digestive issues, fatigue, breakouts or muscle pain are often signs that you could benefit from a detox program, most of which require you to limit meats and avoid wheat, sugar, dairy, caffeine and alcohol. (See naturalhealthmag .com/detox for an easy, safe plan.) You can also purge toxins by sitting in a sauna or taking Bikram yoga classes, which are practiced in a hot room. Cleansing homeopathic or mineral baths might help, too. Talk to your doctor before embarking on a detox program of any length. If you’re pregnant or nursing, have an eating disorder or suffer from any kind of chronic health condition, it’s especially important to detox only under the supervision of a health care provider. 
10. THEY TAKE MO RE NAPS. Sleep deprivation has the same biological effect as stress: Overtired bodies ratchet up production of the hormone cortisol, which gives you energy but restricts production of human growth hormone, limiting your body’s ability to repair itself. Just like stress, sleep loss has a degenerative effect on your health, and lack of sleep is also tied to compromised immune function. Researchers at the University of California, San Diego, found that the number and effectiveness of immune cells decrease without enough sleep. A counterintuitive napping tip: Consider drinking a cup of coffee or other caffeinated beverage right before your nap. Because it will take about 20 minutes for the caffeine to travel through your digestive system, you can fit in a short snooze before it takes effect. Japanese researchers found that subjects who did this were more alert when they awoke than those who didn’t, and that their post-slumber work productivity was higher.&nb sp;

Adapted from The Secrets of People Who Never Get Sick (Workman Publishing, 2010) by Gene Stone
 

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Fall Skincare

Fall Skincare

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Fall Skincare

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Autumn hard on skin--dropping temperatures, indoor heating, and low humidity can strip it of its moisture, resulting in a flaky, rough complexion that's about as silky as th e floor of the Mohave desert. And your face invariably suffers the brunt. While other body parts are covered up, your face is almost always exposed to the cold, wind, and sun.

"Cold-weather exposure contributes to the breakdown of collagen--the connective tissue that maintains skin's firmness--and can result in increased fine lines, tightness, inflammation, and an overall red, flaky, dry complexion," explains Wilma F. Bergfeld, M.D., head of dermatology at the Cleveland Clinic in Ohio. Her solution? Simply apply a moisturizer. The benefits are clear and immediate: "Gaps and cracks between skin cells are filled in and fortified, and elasticity is restored for a smooth and supple appearance," she says.

The challenge is finding the right moisturizer. "Now is the time to switch to a richer moisturizer that's powerful enough to not only replenish moisture loss but also to seal in the moisture that's already there," says Doris J. Day, M.D., a dermatologist in New Yor k City. To get both benefits, you needn't seek out a scientific formula; emollients made with some of the most basic, natural ingredients--such as wheat, oatmeal, soy, and jojoba--are perfectly equipped to handle the job. Here, a few of the best winter-tested creams to help you save face.

Wheat
The germ of the wheat plant is rich in vitamins A, D, and E, which are known antioxidants (substances that fight free radicals, or highly reactive oxygen molecules). Wheat also boosts skin's natural exfoliation process, which is critical for allowing softer, newer, and more radiant skin cells to surface. "It makes the skin cells less sticky, which helps dead cells slough off more easily," says Day.

Oatmeal
Colloidal, or finely crushed, oatmeal is widely known to soothe dry, itchy skin. When used topically, it binds to the outer layer of skin, creating a protective barrier against the elements.

Soy
As a source of complete protein, the soybean plant is loaded with nutrients, plant estrogens, and fatty acids; applied to the skin it forms a protective barrier against the elements. "Because it contains lecithin--a type of fat that's both an antioxidant and a natural emollient--it easily soothes itchiness and dryness," says Day. That may be why soy has long been known to treat dry skin conditions like eczema and psoriasis.

Jojoba
Extracted from the seed of the desert shrub Simmondsia chinensis, jojoba oil has long been used by Native Americans to treat windburn as well as sunburn. Jojoba oil is similar in consistency to sebum (the skin's natural oil), making it an ideal substitute when sebum is depleted. "Our skin accepts jojoba oil more effectively, meaning there is less processing time and faster delivery," explains Day.
 

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Are You Taking Life Too Seriously?

Are You Taking Life Too Seriously?

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Are You Taking Life Too Seriously?

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You don't have to have a baby to reconnect with life's simpler pleasures- -but that's what it took for Mary Ellen Ynes, 41, of Foster City, Calif. For this high-powered public relations professional in Silicon Valley, life had become all about the job. But that ended when she and her husband adopted a little girl from Russia.

"It was a big turning point," she says. Not only did the couple cut back on work to allow for more family fun, they also made it a priority to get some rest and recreation for themselves. Ynes started reserving an hour of "me time" most nights to read, as well as scheduling a couple of outings a month with girlfriends. She also began taking an annual vacation with her "Irish twin" (they're 10 months apart), Bridget Ann Serchak, who lives in Arlington, Va.

Inspired by her sister, Serchak took steps to get a life outside her own hectic P.R. job. Now, she too makes more time for recreation, as well as connecting with others and volunteering. Once a month, she plays tourist in her own backyard by visiting a local mu seum or other attraction she's rushed by many times before. Last year, the siblings spent a few days at a hot-air balloon festival in Albuquerque, N.M., and they can't wait for this year's "sister vacation" in Lake Tahoe. Both women say that their new lives have paid off immensely. "Even when life gets hectic I don't let it get to me," Ynes says, "because my priorities are in the right place now and I've never been happier."

Regrettably, the sisters' saga is far from common. Americans log more time at work than almost any other people in the developed world. According to the American Institute of Stress, employees in the U.S. spent 40 more hours on the job during the course of 2000 than they did in 1990. (Some government statistics show a slighter rise in hours worked for this period, but they don't include little things like unpaid overtime!)

We also get less time off than workers do in other nations. Unlike many European countries where at least four weeks of vacation are required by law, American employers aren't required to offer any vacation at all. According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, we get an average of 10 days off after one year on the job and 14 days after five years. But in today's tight economy, many of us don't take vacations for fear of looking like a slacker. Either that, or we're struggling with extra responsibilities inherited from colleagues who were laid off during downsizing.

"We live in a time when people are asked to do more with less," explains Catherine Heaney, Ph.D., an associate professor of public health at Ohio State University. Add it all up and you have the formula for physical, mental and spiritual burnout.

the stress factor
If we rarely catch a break, our bodies end up in a chronic state of arousal. "We're built for the fight-or-flight response to stress, but we're also built to need time to recover from it," says Heaney. "Doing without that lessens our ability to fig ht off disease and takes a toll on energy levels and vitality."

Chronic stress leads to a range of debilitating conditions, such as fatigue, irritability, sleeplessness, anxiety, back pain, headache, stomach upset, depression, hypertension and heart disease.

"All work and no play makes us more than dull--it makes us dead," declares Jerry May, Ph.D., a professor of psychiatry and behavioral sciences at the University of Nevada in Reno.

For the last 15 years, May has been studying a group of about 3,000 high-achievers in fields such as business, medicine, law and athletics. He's found that those who incorporate more play into their days aren't just happier, they're more productive, have higher self-esteem and less stress, and they sleep better, among other benefits.

the joy factor
You can start to add joy and minimize stress by doing what Ynes and her sister have done. Decide which people and activities are truly important to you. Make a l ist of your priorities, such as spending time with your partner, taking care of your health, traveling, following a passion or pursuing spiritual interests; then organize them into A, B and C categories, depending on their importance. You might be surprised when things you thought were important, like getting a promotion or buying more stuff, end up in the C category.

Now, you may not be able to quit your job so you can bake bread from scratch every day or cycle across Europe. But you can focus on your A list and develop a plan to incorporate these pleasurable pursuits into your life. Keep in mind that "play time" doesn't have to be a big event that's inked into your day planner; spontaneity is often half the fun.

Even small doses add up. "We need to learn how to take little fun breaks," May says. "I think it's sad when a day goes away and you haven't had some fun." So spend time before dinner hanging out with the kids or a few minutes throughout the day joking with co-workers. If you're faced with another meeting in a stuffy conference room, suggest a "walk and talk" session outside.

Finally, when you do take some of your hard-earned and much-needed vacation time, don't leave a techno trail: Keep your laptop and pager at home and turn your cellphone off. You'll survive, and so will your office. And that's OK.

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The Ultimate Playlist for a Dance Party That Doubles as a Workout

The Ultimate Playlist for a Dance Party That Doubles as a Workout

Daybreaker wants you to sub out some of your pre-work sweat sessions for early-morning dance-fests.

Every week, Your New Favorite Playlist introduces you to workout-worthy tunes from a different fitness brand. This week, Daybreaker shares one of its recent playlists.

Radha Agrawal and her friend Matt Brimer were eating late-night falafel in Brooklyn when an idea occurred to them: Instead of hitting the club scene to dance—which left them feeling exhausted at best and hungover at worst—why not introduce an early-morning version that could replace a pre-work cycling or yoga class?

"We said, 'How can we turn the morning into a carnival-like experience that people won't ever forget and will carry into their day and bring that creativity into their workplace?" says Agrawal. The first Daybreaker event, a two-hour sober dance party with a live DJ, various other performers, and healthy breakfast options, took place last December in New York—and it was an instant hit. Now, the festivities are held twice monthly in New York, San Francisco, and Los Angeles—and they're expanding to even more cities. To attend a Daybreaker event near you ($25 per ticket), sign up to receive local newsletters at dybrkr.com. In the meantime, you can enjoy your own sweat-infused dance party with this mix, which DJ and producer Eric Sharp played at Daybreaker's Los Angeles launch:

1. Jonas Rathsman, "Skepparkrans (French Express)"
2. Eric Sharp, "Time Drips" (Harris Robotis Remix)
3. The Magician, "Sunlight" (feat. Years and Years)
4. Felix Da Housecat, "Ill Noize" (Clandestin Edit)
5. Steve Silk Hurley, "Jack Your Body" (Doorly Remix)
6. Alex Metric, "Heart Weighs A Ton" (Cassian Remix)
7. Waterman, "Bullitt"
8. Les Professionnels, "Don’t Give It Away" (Aimes Remix)
9. Duke Dumont, "I Got You" (Tensnake Remix feat. Jax Jones)
10. Les Professionnels, "Pure Love" (Eric Sharp Remix)
11. Flashback, "Let’s Make Love"
12. Basement Jaxx, "Never Say Never" (Mark Knight Remix feat. ETML)
13. Disclosure, "White Noise" (Tommie Sunshine & Oliver Heldens Remix feat. Alunageorge)
14. Cajmere, "Brighter Days" (Underground Goodie Mix feat. Dajae)
15. Soul Central, "Strings Of Life" (Danny Krivit Edit)
16. Joe Smooth, "Promised Land"
17. The Believers, "Who Dares To Believe In Me"
18. Julio Bashmore, "Au Seve"
19. Route 94, "My Love" (feat. Jess Glynne)
20. George Fitzgerald, "I Can Tell By The Way You Move" (Paul Woolford Remix)
21. Give In, "Time Away" (Eric Sharp Remix)
22. London Grammar, "Strong" (Claude VonStroke Remix)

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Listen to the playlist here:

Daybreaker currently hosts events in New York, San Francisco, Los Angeles, and London and will soon be launching in Chicago, Atlanta, and several cities abroad.

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The Page-Turner You'll Want to Curl Up with Right Now

The Page-Turner You'll Want to Curl Up with Right Now

Liane Moriarty, author of <em>The Husband's Secret</em>, has another juicy read for you.

Every month, WomensHealthMag.com hosts our 60-second book club, where we invite you to take a quick peek inside a buzzed-about new book and let us know what you think. This month’s pick: Big Little Lies by Liane Moriarty (Putnam Adult). 

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Summer doesn't have a monopoly on fun reads; while you may not be throwing your favorite books in a beach bag, now is a great time to grab a blanket and a cup of tea and crack open something juicy. Big Little Lies by Liane Moriarty (Putnam Adult) is the perfect option if you're looking for an indulgent read: The book focuses on three women who live on the Pirriwee Peninsula in Australia—all of whom have children at the local public school. Early on in the novel, you learn that one of the parents is murdered at the school's trivia night—but you don't know who got axed (and you definitely don't know who the murderer is). Take a look at this excerpt from the first chapter:

Gabrielle: It wasn't like it was just the mothers, you know. It wouldn't have happened without the dads. I guess it started with the mothers. We were the main players, so to speak. The mums. I can't stand the word "mum." It's a frumpy word, don't you think? "Mom" is better. With an o. It sounds skinnier. We should change to the American spelling. I have body image issues, by the way. Who doesn't, right?

Bonnie: It was all just a terrible misunderstanding. People's feelings got hurt, and then everything just spiraled out of control. The way it does. All conflict can be traced back to someone's feelings getting hurt, don't you think? Divorce. World wars. Legal action. Well, maybe not every legal action. Can I offer you an herbal tea?

Stu: I'll tell you exactly why it happened: Women don't let things go. Not saying the blokes don't share part of the blame. But if the girls hadn't gotten their knickers in a knot . . . And that might sound sexist, but it's not, it's just a fact of life. Ask any man—not some new-age, artsy- fartsy, I-wear-moisturizer type, I mean a real man—ask a real man, then he'll tell you that women are like the Olympic athletes of grudges. You should see my wife in action. And she's not even the worst of them.

Miss Barnes: Helicopter parents. Before I started at Pirriwee Public, I thought it was an exaggeration, this thing about parents being overly involved with their kids. I mean, my mum and dad loved me, they were, like, interested in me when I was growing up in the nineties, but they weren't, like, obsessed with me.

Mrs. Lipmann: It's a tragedy, and deeply regrettable, and we're all trying to move forward. I have no further comment.

Carol: I blame the Erotic Book Club. But that's just me.

Jonathan: There was nothing erotic about the Erotic Book Club, I'll tell you that for free.

Jackie: You know what? I see this as a feminist issue.

Harper: Who said it was a feminist issue? What the heck? I tell you what started it: the incident at the kindergarten orientation day.

Graeme: My understanding was that it all goes back to the stay-at-home mums battling it out with the career mums. What do they call it? The Mummy Wars. My wife wasn't involved. She doesn't have time for that sort of thing.

Thea: You journalists are just loving the French nanny angle. I heard someone on the radio today talking about the "French maid," which Juliette was certainly not. Renata had a housekeeper as well. Lucky for some. I have four children, and no staff to help out! Of course, I don't have a problem per se with working mothers, I just wonder why they bothered having children in the first place.

Melissa: You know what I think got everyone all hot and bothered? The head lice. Oh my gosh, don't let me get started on the head lice.

Samantha: The head lice? What did that have to do with anything? Who told you that? I bet it was Melissa, right? That poor girl suffered post-traumatic stress disorder after her kids kept getting reinfected. Sorry. It's not funny. It's not funny at all.

Detective-Sergeant Adrian Quinlan: Let me be clear: This is not a circus. This is a murder investigation.

Each chapter ends with similar quotes pulled from police interviews, making it next to impossible to put the book down.

Tell us: What do you think of the excerpt? Has the story sucked you in yet? Share your thoughts in the comments!

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The Fruit That May Help Keep Your Gut Healthy

The Fruit That May Help Keep Your Gut Healthy

Bonus: It's delicious. Start munching!

Fall is the perfect season to show apples some major love. Not only does a crisp one deliver a beyond-satisfying crunch, but chowing down on the fruit—especially the Granny Smith variety—may help ward off obesity-related disorders, according to a new study in Food Chemistry.

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Researchers at Washington State University analyzed the non-digestible compounds in seven types of apples: Braeburn, Fuji, Gala, Golden Delicious, Granny Smith, McIntosh, and Red Delicious. They found that Granny Smiths have the highest levels of non-digestible compounds like fibers and polyphenols, which the study says have been connected to protecting against chronic disease.

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The scientists studied fecal samples from obese mice that had been fed non-digestible compounds found in the flesh and skin of Granny Smith apples, looking for clues in the mice’s bacterial population. “The non-digestible compounds in the Granny Smith apples actually changed the proportions of fecal bacteria from obese mice to be similar to that of lean mice,” says food scientist Giuliana Noratto, the study’s lead researcher, in a statement.

When fermented by colon bacteria, non-digestible compounds alter the levels of good and bad bacteria in the gut. Specifically, they increase the growth of the beneficial type that happens to be threatened in obese people’s systems. Getting a healthier balance of gut bacteria may help consumers improve their metabolic processes, avoiding disorders that are linked to obesity like low-grade, chronic inflammation that can lead to diabetes. Plus, balanced bacteria can contribute to feeling more satiated, another key factor in maintaining a healthy weight.

This study joins the growing body of research surrounding the association between gut bacteria and weight. Check out these foods that are essential to good gut health to keep your insides looking just as fit as your outside.

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This Is What an 8,000 Calorie Breakfast Looks Like

This Is What an 8,000 Calorie Breakfast Looks Like

Stomach hurting yet?

Would you eat a meal so unhealthy that you have to sign a waiver before taking a bite? If you’re thinking heck no, then you can forget tasting the gluttonous feast of a breakfast on the menu at the Bear Grills Café in northern England (which reportedly has nothing to do with Bear Grylls, the Man vs. Wild guy). 

This heart attack on a platter packs 6,000 greasy calories of bacon, sausage, hash browns, waffles, toast, a four-cheese omelet, and black pudding (hey, it’s the U.K.)—along with a 2,000-calorie milkshake to wash it all down with. “We weighed all the cooked food and it came to a whopping 7 pounds,” café owner Mark Winder told the U.K.'s Manchester Evening News. “That’s the weight of a baby. It’s called the Hibernator because if anyone completes it, they’ll have to sleep for a year.” 

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So far, no one’s finished the monster off in one sitting, which is probably a good thing, especially considering that the total calorie count is four times the recommended amount for a moderately active adult woman. Here's a video of someone being served the ginormous breakfast:

For breakfasts that are satisfying—but come in at a much more reasonable calorie count—check out these five-minute breakfasts that are actually healthy.  

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The 14 Stages of Starting a Healthy Lifestyle

The 14 Stages of Starting a Healthy Lifestyle

Health isn’t a destination. It’s a thrilling, infuriating, and totally worth-it journey.

Wherever you are in your healthy-living journey, someone else has been there before—and probably freaked out, squealed from excitement, and eventually let out a huge sigh of relief just like you. Here are 11 things that inevitably go down when you start living the healthy life.

1. Excitement. You are so ready for this! Now is the perfect time to achieve your get-healthy goals once and for all!

FYI, you’ll set yourself up for success if you follow this easy goal-setting tip.

2. Loss. First things first, you’ve got to make room for healthy living. That mean’s the junk food has got to go. You begrudgingly throw out your pizza delivery coupons, stash your chocolate in a hard-to-reach cabinet, and wonder if you could “get rid” of your Oreos by eating them.

You might feel all alone right now, but even R.D.s have endured your pain. Check out these ways nutritionists deal when they get cravings for unhealthy foods.

3. Confusion. You head to the supermarket and are immediately overwhelmed by 27 different kinds of whole-wheat pasta, an endless array of misleading food labels, and checkout lines teeming with tempting sweets.

This stage is so all-consuming that it has stages of its own. Behold, the 20 emotional stages of shopping at Trader Joe's.

4. Irritation. You make it through the checkout with a refillable water bottle and start carrying it around everywhere. Surprise! You have to pee. All. The. Time.

But wait! Is bottled water healthier than tap water?

5. Accomplishment. You fire up the slow cooker, plop in some meats and veggies, and…wow, this healthy cooking thing is easy—and yummy! You rock!

You'll feel like even more of a pro if you try one of these seven amazing slow cooker recipes.

6. Cockiness. Your friends could really benefit from your healthy cooking skills. It’s such a shame they don’t have a chef like you in their kitchens. Time for a healthy partay!

You need to include Lauren Conrad’s genius party snack on your menu.

7. Procrastination. You “wake up” from your party, completely exhausted. Too tired to exercise just yet, you spend two hours creating a playlist that is bound to get you fired up for the gym.

No excuses: Here are 25 playlists for every possible workout routine on the planet.

8. Embarrassment. You finally get to the gym and come face-to-face with the hard realization that, not only are you underdressed, but your sweatpants are downright fugly.

If you have on any of these eight things you should never wear to the gym, change immediately.

9. Shock. So you browse the racks of adorable workout threads inside the lobby—and consider taking out a second mortgage.

Or, you can shop these stylish workout clothes online.

10. Instant Gratification. You make a beeline to the locker room and switch into your new threads. You haven’t even worked out, and your body already looks fitter. Time for a selfie! 

Find out if wearing fitness gear really boosts your workout motivation.

11. Fascination. You love watching your mileage on the fitness machines. And snap picks to share with all of your friends and frenemies.

Want even more info and bragging rights? Check out these seven incredibly stylish fitness, health, and life trackers that look like jewelry.

12. Disgust. There’s just so much sweat. You run to grab a towel and secretly worry that you have a glandular problem.

Nah, sweat is your friend! Learn how much sweating is normal.

13. Ecstasy. You leave the gym feeling amazing. Mmmmmm, endorphins. You’re starting to see how people get hooked on this healthy living thing.

Find out what a runner’s high really is.

14. Obsession. Wait…you’re one of those people!

Check out these 13 signs you’re obsessed with yoga.

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5 Ways You're Ruining Salads

5 Ways You're Ruining Salads

Have you been using the wrong greens this whole time?

This article was written by Lizzie Fuhr and repurposed with permission from POPSUGAR Fitness.

If you're making a salad your healthy main dish, it isn't enough to throw some greens, dressing, and croutons together on a plate. Building a satisfying and nutritious salad can be easy, but it's important to know what you need and what you should skip—especially when it comes to weight loss! Fix these common mistakes, and you'll be in much better shape when lunch or dinner rolls around.

You Choose a Weak Green
While iceberg or romaine offer hydration to your plate, the real nutrition comes from fiber- and nutrient-rich leafy greens like kale, mixed greens, or spinach. If you're not sure which is which, just opt for a darker color on the salad bar! If all of one green is too much for your taste buds, then try mixing two together for a little variety.

You Don't Pile on the Produce
When it comes to toppings, croutons and nuts are not enough. It's essential to pile the fresh produce on heavy to bring as much nutrient power to your plate as possible. We're big believers in bringing a diverse mix of colorful produce to your plate. Go for in-season veggies and fruits whenever possible for the best textures and flavors.

You Don't Add Enough Protein
The right amount of protein can make or break your salad. If you pile on gorgeous greens and produce with no protein to be seen, you're going to be hungry later. Regardless of your diet, the average woman needs 46 grams of protein every day—and that number goes way up if you're active. Lean meat and fish are great options, but if you're following a vegetarian diet, check out these approved protein sources that should make their way into your meal.

You Don't Add Any Good Fat
Steering clear of all fat is doing your body an injustice. It may sound counterintuitive, but eating the mono- and polyunsaturated fats can keep you healthy and satisfied. Foods like walnuts, avocado, and olive oil are all plant-based sources of those omega-3-rich fats. 

You Pour the Dressing on Thick
Even if your salad is full of healthy nutrient-rich ingredients, pouring on a heaping helping of bad-for-you dressing can change your meal very quickly. The front of your favorite store-bought bottle may boast low-calorie and low-fat benefits, but the nutritional information and ingredient list can tell a very different story. Keep portion sizes in check, read over the ingredients, and consider making your own healthy dressing at home. This way you have control over all the ingredients and can keep preservatives, chemicals, and excess sugar out of the picture.

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What Happens to Your Body When You Hit the Snooze Button

What Happens to Your Body When You Hit the Snooze Button

Calling all morning procrastinators…

You know you've been there: Your alarm starts blaring in the a.m., and with your brain consumed by a lethargy haze, you reflexively reach over and hit snooze, stealing yourself 10 more minutes of shuteye, then another 10 minutes, and then another. You probably have an inkling that relying on the snooze button so heavily isn’t doing your sleep quality any favors. But the damage you’re racking up and how it spills over and messes with your day might surprise you.

First, pressing snooze screws with your REM sleep. This is the most restorative sleep stage, crucial to feeling mentally focused the next day, says sleep specialist Michael Breus, Ph.D. It occurs just before you wake, and your alarm pulls you out of REM sleep. But hitting snooze and shutting your eyes again sends you right back into a new phase of it, which your brain stays in long after you’ve forced yourself to get up. The result: You’re foggy all day, and your productivity takes a dive.

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Another consequence is that your body clock gets out of whack, says Breus. The circadian rhythms that govern your internal timer want you to wake when the alarm sounds—the first time. Retreat back into sleep, however, and these rhythms get thrown off. Soon your body isn’t sure when to wind down and when to wake up. It’s a vicious cycle: You’re increasingly sleep deprived, so you rely more on the snooze button, but that just leaves you zombie-like day after day.

MORE: 6 Things That Are Seriously Screwing with Your Sleep

So swear off hitting snooze, advises Breus. It’s a hard habit to break, but begin by investing in a new clock that doesn’t have a snooze setting, or just set your alarm for when you typically snooze to in the first place (so if you hit it then, you'll definitely be late).

Then, make a real effort to turn in earlier at night, which might mean sleep-proofing your bedroom so it’s easier for your body to doze off (these tips can get you started). Do it in half-hour increments until you find the bedtime that allows you to feel rested and ready to rise and shine…not slink back under the covers.

MORE: 7 Essential Strategies to Be SO MUCH BETTER at Falling Asleep

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5 Juicy Questions for Lenny Kravitz

5 Juicy Questions for Lenny Kravitz

Find out how the super cool rock star feels about PDA.

At 50, Lenny Kravitz is still one of the coolest (and sexiest) musicians ever. We caught up with the singer-songwriter—who released his 10th studio album, Strut, on September 23—and gave him our standard rapid-fire set of questions. Find out what how he feels about PDA, plastic surgery, and yes, what he thinks is better than sex.

Do opposites attract?
Well, of course. I think it's interesting when people are different--when you can learn from each other. I like that.

Finish this sentence: I wish more women would______.
Be more natural. I think a lot of women are pulling for what society says they need to look like...changing themselves with so much plastic work. I think aging gracefully is the most beautiful. When you see an older woman who has aged naturally and takes care of herself, that's so much sexier. I'm down for natural vibes.

Are you a fan of PDA?
It's beautiful. That's how a couple needs to be. It's wonderful. Absolutely.

One of the tracks on your new album is called "Sex." Can you think of anything that's better than sex?
Love, in general. Sex with love is the best thing.

Something you've learned from a past relationship?
There have been times where, because of the craziness of my life, I've met the right person at the wrong time. Even though it may not be the right time, you have to make it happen, because you don't always get a second chance.

FAST TALK
Long hair or short?
 Long.

Blonde, brunette, or redhead? Brunette.

Stay home or go out? Stay home.

Favorite dish to cook? Something Italian. A really sexy pasta.

Heartbreak cure? Write music. Heartbreak writes the best songs.

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How to Activate Your Glutes to Get More Out of Your Workout

How to Activate Your Glutes to Get More Out of Your Workout

Fire up your lower body with one simple exercise.

This article was written by Jenna Bergen Southerland and provided by our partners at Prevention.

When trainer Bruce Mack had us try the Mini-Band Circuit for the first time, we couldn't believe how quickly it fired up our hips, thighs, and glutes. Within seconds, we could feel our lower-body muscles working, and within a minute, they were quivering in that crazy, yet this-is-totally-working way. 

You can do this move while zoning out in front of the TV or use it as a quick lower-body warm-up before any workout. It will wake up your glutes so they're primed and ready for action, which means you'll get more out of your sweat session (especially during squats and lunges) and see results faster.

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8 Genius Ways to Boost Your Immunity

8 Genius Ways to Boost Your Immunity

Because those days off work can be put to way better use

Being sick is the absolute worst feeling in the world. When your nose is clogged and your brain feels like a jackhammer's pounding at it relentlessly, all you want to do is curl up in the fetal position and hide under your blanket. Yeah…no, thanks!

Of course, one of the best ways to protect yourself is to get the flu shot ASAP, but a strong immune system is also a crucial defense against the virus. So protect yourself with these eight ways to strengthen your immunity:

Practice More Yoga
Yoga packs a powerful punch. Not only is it a great stress reliever, but certain poses and sequences can stimulate the four main physiological systems—the circulatory, digestive, nervous, and endocrine systems—which rev up your immunity. Try these yoga positions to help fend off all those colds going around.

Stock Your Pantry
We’re not totally convinced that an apple a day really keeps the doctor away, however, we’re positive that certain foods do have the potential to fight the flu, among other viruses. Look for edibles loaded with antioxidants, probiotics, and vitamins—just avoid added sugars. Or, better yet, shop for these six foods that boost immunity and promote weight loss the next time you’re grocery shopping. Win-win!

MORE: Is It Okay to Work Out When You Have a Cold?

Up Your Workout Intensity
So, you’re already aware of yoga’s immune-strengthening abilities (see above!), but if you prefer dumbbells to downward-facing dog, good news: People who exercised vigorously (really anything that gets your heart pumping) for two and a half hours a week were about 10 percent less likely to come down with a flu-like illness, according to recent study. Keep in mind that overdoing it at the gym can have the opposite effect, so give yourself plenty of time to recover.

Imbibe Wisely  
Yup—drinking alcohol in moderation may bolster immunity, according to a study published in the journal Vaccine. Now, before you make plans for happy hour, you need to know that this research was done on animals, so what amped their health may not be the same for humans. That said, study authors stress that a glass of wine with dinner may have the same benefits—just go easy on the Pinot Noir.

Throw a Girls Night
We know what you’re up to this Friday night! Previous research suggests that social people have a greater resistance to infectious diseases. So make a point to pack your calendar a little more this flu season.

MORE: How to Avoid a Summer Cold

Book a Spa Day
Be honest, you could use some R&R lately. Experts say that regular 20-minute massages are enough to decrease cortisol levels—a stress hormone that can weaken immunity.

Get Plenty of Sleep
Here's another reason to get to bed early tonight: University of Chicago researchers found that anitbodies in sleep-deprived people who received a vaccine were weaker than those in well-rested people. Plus, getting enough sleep is one of the best ways to relieve stress, which will in turn boost your immunity.

Be Mindful of Your Makeup
Skin absorbs beauty products throughout the day, and certain formulas may contain artificial (and possibly toxic) ingredients that can screw with your immune system. Spring for all-natural products if you can, or at least look for picks with the fewest amount of ingredients.  

MORE: You Will Not Believe How Quickly a Virus Can Spread in Your Office

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What to Do When a Class Instructor Is Pushing You Too Hard

What to Do When a Class Instructor Is Pushing You Too Hard

Plus, how to know when you should cry “uncle”

Sometimes we all need a good push. And for that, workout classes are super handy. But there’s a fine line between “wow, that class was killer in an awesome way!” and bruised egos, horrendous form, and actual walkouts.

Case in point: One Women’s Health editor recently came back from a strength-training class shocked at how hard the instructor was on everyone. At one point, she looked around the studio’s 10 to 15 class-goers, and only a couple of people were actually completing the moves. The rest were panting and guzzling water. One woman got up and left.

That’s a pretty extreme case, sure, but unfortunately it’s still pretty common that instructors try to push their students too hard, says certified personal trainer Idalis Velazquez, owner of IV Fitness in Florida and a Women's Health Next Fitness Star finalist. “Some instructors tend go for ‘tired’ instead of quality,” says Velazquez. "But you don’t need to give in to this mentality. Doing more work can’t replace effectiveness.”

MORE: 7 Things You Should Never Ever Do in a Fitness Class

Monitoring your performance can be a great gauge of how hard you should—and shouldn’t—be pushing yourself. If at any point your form suffers, you are instructed to perform an advanced version of an exercise when you still haven’t mastered the basic movement, you just can’t catch your breath, or you feel nauseated or faint, it’s time to ease up a bit—no matter how hard your instructor wants you to hit it, says Velazquez.

On the flip side, though, if you can perform an exercise’s prescribed number of reps with perfect form, it’s time to kick things up a notch. “In order to get your body to change, it has to exert itself greater than what it’s used to," says Velazquez. "It should never feel easy."

MORE: The 10 Stages of Going to A New Fitness Class for the First Time

That’s why a strong instructor will coach the class on different exercise variations to make any particular exercise simpler or more challenging, says Tony Gentilcore, C.S.C.S., co-founder of Cressey Performance in Hudson, Massachusetts. “Everyone has different goals, injury histories, needs, and experience levels," he explains. "We can't expect someone who's taking a class for her first time to perform at the same level as someone who's been taking the same class for an extended period of time.”

If you don't feel like you're getting what you need from your instructor, then it's time for a chat. “Before the [next] class begins, introduce yourself and give the instructor a heads-up of any conditions that he or she should be aware of, as well as your fitness level," says Gentilcore. "Ninety-nine times out of 100, the instructor will go out of his or her way to accommodate you and your needs." And if your instructor doesn't? "If he or she ignores you, makes you feel out of place, doesn’t take the time to explain things, or gives you a hard time... absolutely walk out," says Gentilcore.

MORE: The 6 Worst Strength-Training Tips Ever

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What You Need to Know About the New California Law on Sexual Consent

What You Need to Know About the New California Law on Sexual Consent

Could this legislation set the standard for the entire country?

Late last week, California legislators passed a law requiring colleges across the state to implement sexual assault policies based on "affirmative consent" in order to receive funding for student financial assistance. California is the first state to enforce a standard policy across all of its universities (state and private).

Unlike the "no means no" standard of consent, the affirmative consent—or "yes means yes"—policy in California's new law is based on whether a person specifically says yes to any kind of sexual activity, rather than if they say no or aren't capable of saying yes. It’s a subtle difference intended to help emphasize that silence is still not consent and that the burden isn't on the victim to say no.

MORE: White House Releases Guidelines to Combat Sexual Assault on College Campuses

According to the signed bill, affirmative consent also means that, "consent must be ongoing and can be revoked at any time." This means that a yes is required at every stage, from foreplay to intercourse. The law also clarifies that saying the assaulter was too drunk to know if the person gave consent isn't a valid excuse—and that people must take steps to ensure they have consent from a partner (failing to take these steps won't be viewed as a valid defense in the eyes of the law).

In addition to the sexual assault mandates, the law also requires colleges to adopt specified policies for how to respond to domestic violence, dating violence, and stalking (the policies outlined are the minimum requirement for schools, which are free to add to them). A few of these standards include responding to victims in a timely manner, interviewing the victim, following up on that interview, interviewing the accused party, and involving victim advocates in this process. The colleges must also create outreach programs to educate students about these polices.

MORE: The Shocking Rape Statistic That You Need to Read

In light of the recent accusations against colleges improperly handling sexual assault cases, it seems logical to have a solid policy in place for all schools. Granted, it’s hard to know for sure if laws like this will help combat sexual assault on campus—but at least it's a step in the right direction.

MORE: The Need-to-Know on... Sexual Assault on Campus

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You Have to See the Adorable Way This Couple Has Posed for Pictures All Over the World

You Have to See the Adorable Way This Couple Has Posed for Pictures All Over the World

Cutest. Tradition. EVER.

They say the “honeymoon phase” in a relationship can’t last forever, but one couple’s photograph series of a spontaneously passionate kiss could definitely prove that theory wrong.

Photojournalists Kendrick Brinson and David Walter Banks have traveled the world while recreating a particularly adorable snapshot, reports Buzzfeed. One of their friends took the original photo of Brinson jumping in the air while hanging from her husband in a swoon-worthy lip-lock. Now, they use a timer to take the same shot in different places. So far they’ve kissed everywhere from California and Georgia to Ireland and Mexico.

"I love traditions and patterns, so it became a fun personal series to document our memories where we were actually both in the photo," she told Buzzfeed.

They struck the pose in some amazing locales over the years, and they even spawned their own hashtag along the way, #brinsonbanksing. (It’s worth a search to see all the cute couples who have tried out the pose, too.)

Check out a few from the couple's Instagram, below:

Looking at all the effort these two made to hold onto a great memory while creating new ones is totally inspiring. While the pose has stayed the same, each of them have individually changed in certain ways. It’s kind of a perfect metaphor for a great relationship, in a way. You each grow on your own, but if you make the effort, your bond can remain unchanged.

Here are a few ways to rekindle your honeymoon phase if you’re looking to capture the spark that brought you together in the first place. (No camera timer and passport necessary.)  

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What Men Really Think About Your Beauty Routine

What Men Really Think About Your Beauty Routine

That cat eye is basically just confusing him.

In not-so-shocking news, men are still pretty mystified by female grooming. From fake eyelashes (they're cool, okay?!) to the time it takes to do your hair (well, do they have bountiful shoulder-length tresses to deal with? Didn't think so!), the whole ordeal completely eludes them.

So the Women's Health Guy Next Door, Clint Carter, decided to ask men what they really thought of your beauty routine, and he got some pretty entertaining answers. Apparently, while they appreciate waxing, they don't understand why one would put themself through that trauma (which is why it's awesome that these guys finally tried it out themselves).     

Check out the full video below:

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For more insights into the minds of real men, check out all of our Guy Next Door columns here.  

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The 14 Stages of Being Newly Married

The 14 Stages of Being Newly Married

You thought it was all one perfect ride after the wedding? Ha, that's cute.

Marriage is basically a more permanent form of dating: There are ebbs and flows, and distinct stages that will leave you laughing, crying, and wondering at times, “WTF did I get myself into?!” Hitched or planning to be one day? Here’s what’s in store for you…

The Honeymoon
Ah, isn’t life dreamy? Isn’t your life partner dreamy?! You develop a habit of dropping “we’s” into every conversation and immediately change your last name on your bank account/license/Starbucks order. Even if Ryan Gosling begged you to marry him instead, you’d be all like, “Ryan! I’m in love, okay? So step off!”

The “Perfect” Stage
You know what married life is like—you’ve seen The Cosby Show. You think your place needs to be spotless, a nutritious dinner needs to be cooked every night, and all of your interactions need to have sexual undertones. You can do this! Cliff and Claire have nothing on you!

The Big Joint Purchase
Holy crap, you’re buying a car together!!! This is what married life is all about—sharing life’s big experiences together, leather interior optional! You’re slightly stressed that he’s going to die suddenly, because you really don’t want to foot that bill on your own…and experience life without him, obviously.

The Smug Stage
As a married woman of about a year, you’re an expert on this stuff. People start to recognize your marital skills: Friends come to you for relationship advice and even your parents bow down to your greatness comment on how well things seem to be going. You’ve become an airbrushed Oprah version of yourself. You’re perfect. He’s perfect. Life is perfect.

The Couple-Friends Obsession
You’re married?! We’re married! We should be friends! You realize that, while it’s absolutely amazing and complete perfection to spend all of your time alone together, it’s kind of fun to have other people join in, too, provided they’re married. They just get it, you know?

The Jealous Stage
That cute intern at his work definitely has the hots for your man. And what about that waitress at your favorite restaurant? And the woman who delivers your mail? The way she said, “I have a package for you” was not innocent. EVERYBODY IS TRYING TO SLEEP WITH YOUR HUSBAND!!!

The Reality Check
Um… why does he always leave his dirty boxers on the floor? Was he raised by wolves? And for f&*%’s sake, why does he scrape his teeth on his fork when he eats? Married life is completely and utterly perfect, but…while we’re at it, why are you always the one doing the laundry? Sure, you just did it in the beginning with a smile, but you never intended to shoulder that burden forever, okay?

The First Major Fight
It. Is. On. Someone is going to be sleeping on the couch tonight, and it’s not going to be you. You Google “signs it’s time to get a divorce” and take comfort in knowing that at least you’ve lasted longer than Kim Kardashian’s second marriage.

The Declaration of Independence
He’s sorry. You’re sorry. You didn’t mean to call him pretty much every name in the book (but damn your vocabulary is impressive! That’s got to come in handy at Scrabble). It’s obvious: You need “me” time. You start having girls’ nights once a month. It feels epic.

The First Big Decision
You’re offered a sweet job in another state; He wants to move closer to his parents. One of you is going to have to make a major sacrifice and there’s no right answer. Uh…

The Babymoon
You have a bun in the oven! No woman in the history of the world has ever experienced a pregnancy like this! The sun rises and falls over your swollen belly. You have a doting partner and a whole album of Facebook belly shots. You’re going to be the best parents ever.

The Freak Out
What the hell were you thinking? You have a baby, haven’t slept past 5:30 a.m. in nine months, and your sex batting average has dipped to embarrassing levels. Is this what you signed up for? Really?

The New Normal
It’s all good. Sure, the house is kind of a mess and you haven’t washed your hair in a few days. It’s okay. It’ll be okay. Remember when you used to talk about current events and the state of the global economy over a bottle of wine? Yeah…it’s cool.

The Comfort Zone
You had no freaking clue what you were talking about before. This is what married life is all about. You have a life partner who loves and accepts you, period underwear and all. It’s challenging, intense, and at times, not so amazing. But you know you chose the right person. Well done, you.

All gifs courtesy of giphy.com 

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10 Things Married Women Are SO Sick of Hearing
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10 Signs You're Ready for Marriage

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Do Cheaters Actually Want to Get Caught?

Do Cheaters Actually Want to Get Caught?

A new poll looks into the minds of the unfaithful.

Add this to the list of things that will baffle you about cheaters: A surprising majority of them don't seem very concerned about getting caught, according to a recent poll from extramarital affair site Victoria Milan.

The site surveyed 11,050 of its users about their cheating habits, and the results are pretty alarming. Apparently, on top of being sneaky and deceitful, many cheaters are also—incredibly brazen? Sixty-four percent of them sext the person they're cheating with while their partner is in the room and only 12 percent said they were "very afraid" of getting caught. The rest were either only "somewhat afraid" (75 percent) or "not afraid at all" (13 percent).

MORE: If They Cheated Once, Will They Cheat Again?

With blasé attitudes like that, it raises the question: Do cheaters want to get caught? Well, first things first: You might balk at the 64 percent of people sexting right under their partners' noses, but Diana Kirschner, Ph.D., love expert and CEO of Love in 90 Days, says that it's not that bold of a move, given how so many of us are constantly connected to our devices anyway. "These days, people are in such a state of divided attention that there's a natural distance even though they are in physical proximity," she says. "It makes for a feeling of safeness and distance."

That said, Kirschner believes that a good majority of cheaters do want to get caught, at least subconsciously—just not for the reasons you might think. It seems straightforward enough: Cheaters who are apathetic about getting caught must be apathetic about their relationships, right? But Kirschner suggests another theory that may surprise you: The cheater may hope that getting caught would actually rejuvenate the relationship. And as crazy as it sounds, she actually sees this play out quite often.

MORE: 10 Weird Facts About Cheating

"After a relationship is hanging in the bounds like that, there can be new levels of appreciation and sexual contact," says Kirschner. Obviously, this isn't how all cheating scenarios play out, and it's not exactly a great relationship model, but Kirschner says some couples do actually come together after an indiscretion. Essentially, she says it sometimes comes down to habituation: You're always around, so your partner gets used to you and takes you for granted, only to realize your value when there's the threat of losing you—a response that would kick in after the cheating was exposed. Cue him rushing to make it up to you—or you rushing to pique his interest again. And finally, "for some people, it is a way to get out of a marriage that they don’t want to be in," says Kirschner. "They simply don’t have the guts to leave. So they subconsciously want to be found out in order to be 'released.'"

However, Kirschner also says that it's important to remember who's taking these polls—not just cheaters, but cheaters who actively and systematically seek out affairs online. This breed of cheater, she says, is different from the cheater who may stumble into affairs without planning. And those people might not be as antsy to get outed as Victoria Milan's thrill-seeking users.

At the end of the day, a lot of what might drive cheaters to flirt with the danger of exposing their affairs is likely subconscious, says Kirschner, and maybe not so worth overanalyzing. Yes, it might be alarming—and okay, depressing and anger-inducing—that only 12 percent of cheaters are super afraid of getting caught cheating by their partners, but on the other hand, that leaves 88 percent of cheaters helping their partners kick them to the curb faster.   

MORE: Why Smart Men Do Such Sleazy Things

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Monday, September 29, 2014

5 Reasons Your Hair Color Didn't Turn Out Like You Wanted It To

5 Reasons Your Hair Color Didn't Turn Out Like You Wanted It To

The mistakes you're making—and how to avoid them

Falling in love with a hair color is a magical feeling. When you see the shade you have to try, it can be like finding a whole new identity to wear for a while. But sometimes the end-result doesn't turn out the way you planned, looking choppy, muddy, brassy, or just plain unnatural. Here, the top reasons your new 'do didn't do what you wanted it to—and how to avoid having that ever happen again.

Your Hair is Several Colors to Start
If you're a hair dye addict, listen up: If your strands have a bunch of colors layered on top of its natural shade—or your natural roots are grown out—your dye job may end up looking choppy. This is because the dye turns out darker on certain parts of your hair and lighter on others. "You would need to use a color that would get you to the desired outcome for each different section," says Jennifer J. (her professional moniker), Wella Professionals Color Ambassador. For best results, see a professional and give them as much info as possible about your hair's past color lives.

MORE: These 6 Tips Will Make Your Blowout Last a Week

You Didn't Lighten Enough Beforehand
Candy-colored hair is super-fun—just ask Kelly Osborne, Demi Lovatto, and Jemima Kirke. But if you don't have a super-light base layer, your pastel hue may turn out muddy. "If you think about a piece of paper that is light brown or orange and you put a bright color on top of it with a watercolor, you would get something very muddy looking," says Jennifer. "Essentially, if your hair is too dark, the color won't turn out the way you want it to." To get the color you want, start by lightening your strands as much as possible by bleach or patient highlighting them before coloring.

MORE: How to Add Fun Colors to Your Hair the Right Way

You Only Used One Color
Brassiness is the ultimate no when it comes to coloring hair, but it turns out the undertones in your dye can actually be giving your ends a greenish cast. Jennifer says that dyes often use ashy bases to prevent brassiness, but cool, ashy-toned bases can translate to a muddy green on top of your natural color. "The solution would be to use one color on the roots, process, and rinse it out—and then use a different semi-permanent color on the ends [in a matching color]," she says.

You Let It Process Too Long
You've waited patiently through the process of coloring your hair at home, only to find that the color is dull and totally flat. What gives? Jennifer says that you probably let the color process too long, taking all of the dimension out of your strands. "To fix it, I would suggest a clarifying shampoo and washing your hair a few times with it to see if that will pull [the color] out a little bit," she says. If that doesn't work, you're going to have to have a pro fix it. Next time, check your hair every five to 10 minutes, just to be safe.

The Color You Chose Was Too Unnatural
In your head, the shade translated perfectly from the photo on the box to your hair—but in reality, that hue doesn't look as effortless on you as it does on the model. Disaster. Jennifer says this is because you're asking your features and skin tone to work with a color you were never meant to naturally have. If you're going for the natural look (as in you want it to seem like it's possible you were born with your new hair color), she recommends staying within two or three shades of your natural color.

MORE: 11 Celebrity Hair Colors to Inspire You This Fall

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5 Ways to Make Any Baking Recipe Healthier

5 Ways to Make Any Baking Recipe Healthier

Skinnytaste blogger Gina Homolka shares her secrets for slimmed-down sweets.

Since starting the blog Skinnytaste back in 2008, Gina Homolka has overhauled more than 80 different baked good recipes…so she knows a thing or two about how to approach making cookies, cakes, and pastries with added nutrients and fewer calories. The blogger, who has her first cookbook coming out tomorrow, walked us through what she usually does when she wants to give an indulgent recipe a makeover: 

Use Fruit Purees to Replace Some of the Fat
In general, Homolka starts with replacing 50 percent of the butter or oil called for with applesauce, pure pumpkin, or a fruit puree. "Usually you need to have some fat in it," she says. Still, reducing that amount by half can make a serious difference calorie-wise. If the end product comes out feeling a little underdone in the middle, you may have to add some of the fat back in next time you try the recipe. If you get good results in the first go-round and want to reduce the fat content even more, try decreasing it by an extra tablespoon or two at a time.

…Or Get Creative with the Fats You Use
In one cookie recipe, Homolka used mashed avocado instead of butter. It not only helped cut down the cookies' calorie count, but it also increased the healthy monounsaturated fats that they contain. Get the double chocolate chunk walnut cookie recipe.

MORE: The 9 Fats You Need to Lose Weight

Swap Some of the Flour for White Whole Wheat
Again, a good rule of thumb is to substitute half of the flour—but keep half of the flour all-purpose. "Sometimes I can get away with replacing all the flour, but sometimes it winds up having a strange taste—very whole wheat-y," says Homolka.

Slash the Sugar
Homolka finds many recipes overly sweet, so she'll start off by reducing the sugar right off the bat by 25 percent. Oftentimes she'll also swap out the remaining granulated sugar for honey, maple syrup, or maple sugar.

MORE: 8 Easy Ways to Cut Back on Added Sugar

Use Skim Milk in Place of Whole or 2 Percent
By the same token, feel free to use almond milk if you have a dairy allergy. Homolka says making these kind of substitutions almost never create issues with the end product.

If you're getting the vibe that all of this involves a fair amount of work, that's because it does. "It's a lot of trial and error," says Homolka. "I never get it right on the first time—it might be too moist, or it might deflate. It can take me 3 or 4 attempts to get it right." Not willing to give up that much time (and potentially botched baked goods)? Try out these recipes Homolka's already perfected.

MORE: 5 Tasty Desserts with 150 Calories…Or Less

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