Wednesday, October 1, 2014

13 HOT Sex and Love Fantasies You've Probably Had (Because, TV)

13 HOT Sex and Love Fantasies You've Probably Had (Because, TV)

Where's our romantic monologue, huh?!

Last Thursday night, Olivia and Jake were living on a stunning island that's not even on a map, and she was telling him not to stop because they had 10 minutes before their boat full of expensive, rare wine docked. Yes, we're talking about Scandal, and thanks, TV, for yet another crazy sex and love fantasy.

In honor of all the amazingness starting up again on fall TV, we've rounded up 13 romantic hopes, sexual reveries, and some really, really weird dreams we've all had…because, television.

1. Getting a jaw-droppingly hot striptease from your boyfriend (who may or may not have formerly gone by the name Diamond Dan). Because, The Mindy Project.

2. Someone getting off the plane for you. Because, Friends.

3. Making out in an elevator as it climbs from floor to floor, opening at nearly every level. Because, The Good Wife. (RIP, Will Gardner.)

4. Falling for your random Craigslist roommate. Because, New Girl.

5. Having sex on the floor of a house in Vermont that the President of the United States had built just for the two of you. Because, Scandal.

6. Someone stealing a blue French horn for you. Because, How I Met Your Mother.

7. Having a threesome with your partner and your Secret Service agent. Because, House of Cards.

8. Waking up to coffee someone made for you in the diner he owns downstairs. Because, Gilmore Girls.

9. Losing your virginity to your stupid-hot coworker… and eventually ditching your wedding to run away with him. Because, Grey's Anatomy.

10. Randomly going for a steamy hook-up with your ex. Because, Orange Is the New Black.

11. Someone following you to Paris to tell you that he has to be with you. Because, Sex and the City.

12. Hooking up with your boss on the down low. Because, Mad Men.

13. Khal Drogo sex (after they fell in love). Because, Game of Thrones.

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#StyleCrave: Glasses for Cool Kids, by Cool Kids

#StyleCrave: Glasses for Cool Kids, by Cool Kids

Another Target collaboration we love!

WHAT: AndrewAndrew Target Optical Collaboration

WHY: AndrewAndrew is a fun dynamic duo that has been on the New York City social scene since 1999. The pair, both named Andrew, look like they could be twins—but they're not actually related. They DJ, design, write theater reviews, and create Podcasts together—and now they're partnering with Target to design eyewear, an accessory that is synonymous with the duo. The first Target Optical collab, a limited-edition 14-piece collection, has five unisex frames in square and circular shapes. The glasses come in classic colors with a few pops—so they look super-smart and chic.

BUY: $129 (including single vision lenses), available exclusively at Target Optical and on TargetOptical.com

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The Easy Way to Help Guys You Know Get Along

The Easy Way to Help Guys You Know Get Along

It’s fun for them, with a payoff for you, too. Everyone wins!

Alcohol has had a long-standing reputation as one of the best social lubricants in the world—and now, science is here to back up all of that anecdotal evidence: Drinking alcohol may make men more responsive to the smiles of other guys in a group, says new research published in Clinical Psychological Science. Is this the equivalent of how when you’re tipsy, you’re more inclined to get into a compliment exchange with a woman in a bar bathroom? Well, sort of.

Researchers from the University of Pittsburgh and the University of Oslo separated 720 healthy social drinkers from 21-28 into groups of three. Each group then consumed a specific drink: a vodka cranberry, a non-alcoholic beverage, or a non-intoxicating “placebo” beverage that was presented as alcoholic. The team even went the extra mile and smeared the placebo glasses with vodka, then put a few drops of it on top of the drinks to convince the participants it contained alcohol.

MORE: 6 Yummy Cocktail Recipes, With and Without Alcohol

The members of each group were introduced and sat around a table while the drinks were served to them in 12-minute increments. Beside following the instructions to drink their beverages at an even pace before the next round, they didn’t have to adhere to any directions and could interact with each other however they wanted.

The study authors then used technology called the Facial Action Coding System to track how smiles spread throughout each group. They discovered that alcohol significantly boosted the contagiousness of smiles for all-male groups but didn’t have the same effect on groups that included any women. Smiles that were likely to catch on were associated with brighter spirits and increased social bonding, as well as decreased negative mood.

MORE: Should You Take a Break from Alcohol?

So what’s behind the men in this study lobbing smiles back and forth like footballs? First of all, men derive more reward from alcohol, according to the study. “This reward manifests as a specifically social, catching process,” say the researchers.

The contagious part comes down to alcohol-induced “social bravery” that encouraged the men to be a little more open. “Alcohol appears to increase individuals’ willingness to allow their ‘true smiles’ to linger longer in a social setting and as a result, increases the likelihood that they will ultimately meet with a responding smile,” says the study.

MORE: Do You Have to Ditch Alcohol to Lose Weight?

Keeping in mind that moderation is key, this is great research to remember for those times your guy and your dad get together, no?

MORE: Don’t Mix THIS with Alcohol

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Q&A: Will Not Eating ENOUGH Calories Mess with Weight Loss?

Q&A: Will Not Eating ENOUGH Calories Mess with Weight Loss?

How to hit the sweet spot.

The question: "It’s hard to recognize when I’m satisfied, so I end up accidentally overdoing it. But I've heard that eating too few calories can actually make me gain weight, too. Is that true?"

The expert: Amy Shapiro, M.S., R.D., founder of Real Nutrition NYC

The answer: Skimping on your food intake can throw your body for a loop and contribute to weight gain, says Shapiro. “There are clients of mine who come in and aren’t seeing any progress. I tell them they aren’t eating enough, they increase their intake, and they start to lose weight." The reasoning behind this counterintuitive process lies in your body’s aversion to being deprived of food. “When you're not eating enough, you can send your body into starvation mode. Your metabolism slows down because it doesn't know where its next round of calories is coming from,” says Shapiro.

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People cite intermittent fasting, which involves alternating days of very minimal food intake with regular eating, as evidence that you can scale way back on calories and still lose weight. It may be true, but that doesn’t mean it’s necessarily the best strategy for you. “With intermittent fasting, you avoid starvation mode because some days you are, in fact, giving your body enough," says Shapiro. "But on the other days, you’re still severely restricting, which I don’t see it being healthy as a long-term option."

The calorie deficit necessary to enter starvation mode depends on various factors and is different for each person—but your body will likely send you some major signals if it’s not getting enough food. “You may feel dizzy, always hit that afternoon slump, get headaches, and of course, feel hungry a lot of the time," says Shapiro. "Generally, you’ll feel lethargic and like you’re not performing at your highest level."

Shapiro says that one time many people tend to skimp on food is after a workout. “People often try to overwork themselves during exercise and then cut calories by not refueling after,” she says. But your body needs those nutrients to rebuild itself after an intense bout of sweating.

MORE: 7 Ways to Snack for Weight Loss

So what if you always find yourself feeling satiated at 1,100 calories a day—less than the 1,200-calorie minimum most experts recommend staying above, even for weight loss? Shapiro says to look at what those calories are made of: “If those 1,100 calories are full of enough fat and protein to get you throughout your day, then that’s enough for your body," she says. "But it’s about feeling legitimately satisfied, not lying to yourself just so you eat less." If you routinely feel satiated while taking in fewer calories than the norm, you shouldn't push yourself to eat more just to reach a number, she says. As long as you’re medically healthy, listen to your body. It’ll tell you when it needs more sustenance.

Shapiro recommends looking beyond calories and focusing more on the composition of your meals. “There are lots of diets out there that put a limit on your calories," she says. "Let’s say 1,600 calories a day. That makes it easy to work around it because you can have 1,600 calories of pizza, chips, and candy. The thing is, those are very different from 1,600 calories of chicken, avocado, and olive oil." Your body burns foods more efficiently when they’re less processed. Focusing on healthy whole foods also helps you avoid the blood sugar spikes and crashes that come with lots of processed diet foods, while delivering slow-burning energy that can make you say sayonara to the dreaded afternoon slump. Sounds like a win-win! Check out some filling foods that will do your body good, and get ready to revamp your grocery list. 

MORE: The Ingredient That’s Crucial For Weight Loss

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This is Why a Record Number of Americans are Still Single

This is Why a Record Number of Americans are Still Single

And it’s not because they don’t want to tie the knot

It's been a pretty good month for people flying solo. First, an economist found data that revealed single adults now outnumber married adults in the U.S. And now, it looks like the number of never-married adults over age 25 is at an all-time high, according to new statistics released by Pew Research Social Trends. But it's not because we're all shunning marriage. In fact, 55 percent of never-married men and 50 percent of never-married women still want to tie the knot someday.

As with most people who are currently flying solo but would like to eventually partner up for life, it’s not for lack of trying or desire to meet someone. A closer look at these singles found that among those who haven’t been married but would like to be, both men and women are staying single for the same reasons. Thirty percent said they haven’t found someone who has what they’re looking for in a partner, 27 percent said they aren’t financially prepared for marriage, and 22 percent said they’re too young or not yet ready to settle down.

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These are definitely legitimate reasons to be single: It can be really hard to meet someone you're truly compatible with, and money is a very important factor when it comes to marriage. In fact, financial compatibility is one of the best predictors of relationship happiness, so if your career and bank account aren’t where you wish they were, it’s reasonable to put off planning a wedding until you feel more stable. For the other group of singles who are too young or aren’t ready, those are red flags for any serious relationship, too, so kudos for knowing when you still have more personal growth to do before jumping into a major commitment.

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For those who are single and looking to get serious with someone, the good news is that there are lots of other unmarried people out there who are in the exact same boat. Some cities may be better for single folks than others, but no matter where you’re located, there are a ton of options for meeting someone new.

MORE: 7 Signs You're Ready for Marriage

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11 Reasons Why October Is the Most Underrated Month of the Year

11 Reasons Why October Is the Most Underrated Month of the Year

Sorry, June and April.

HELLO, OCTOBER! The autumn-est of all the months has arrived and brought with it so many little joys. October, here are 11 of the many reasons we heart you:

Leather jackets automatically increase your cool quota by, like, 267 points.

Doesn't it seem like Harry Potter TV marathons are always on?

Pumpkin EVERYTHING.

Speaking of which: PSL season has only really just begun.

There are Instagram-worthy shots everywhere you turn. A pile of leaves? An acorn on the ground? Mittens and boots? DON'T MIND IF WE DO.

Halloween has something for everybody: costume parties, candy, and Hocus Pocus.

People rock pink on Wednesdays and for an important cause.

Apple picking is the date that dreams are made of.

We're at that perfectly crisp weather point—not so hot that you're sweaty, not so cold that you're chilly.

But sometimes it does get a little cold, and so you have the perfect excuse to tuck in under your covers and watch Gilmore Girls (which conveniently just arrived on Netflix today).

…Or, you know, do something else.

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MORE: 9 Things You're Stressing About That Legitimately Won't Matter Tomorrow

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Slash Your Cancer Risk—Today

Slash Your Cancer Riskâ€"Today

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month, but here is why we need to think beyond the pink.

There's been a ton of well-deserved attention on breast cancer, but we need to think beyond the pink—these five other types can pose serious threats to women too. The empowering news is: You can do a lot to outsmart them.

Before the famous breast-cancer symbol—the delicate pink ribbon—was created in 1991, the disease suffered from neglect. Now, with the pink-ifying of everything from perfume bottles to football helmets each October, most of us can't even remember that time. And that's a good thing: Bringing breast cancer to the forefront has yielded some big scientific wins, including 3-D mammography (a test that's recently been shown to improve detection and drive down nerve-racking false alarms). And women are way more vigilant about looking out for lumps. The payoff: 61 percent of tumors are now detected at a localized and thus more treatable stage.

Yet while breast-cancer awareness has skyrocketed, most of us remain somewhat in the dark when it comes to knowing which other forms of cancer pose the highest risk: In a recent survey, only 22 percent of people accurately pegged lung cancer as the biggest cancer killer of women.

Thankfully, time is on your side. Some cancers take 10 years or more to develop, which means there's a lot you can do now to help squelch the risk of getting sick later in life, says Graham Colditz, M.D., an associate director for prevention and control at Siteman Cancer Center in St. Louis. Here, what you need to know to help protect yourself from five dangerous types.

LUNG CANCER 

  • #1 cancer killer among women, responsible for 26 percent of female cancer deaths.
  • ​94,000 women are diagnosed each year; about 70,000 die from the disease.
  • 3,000: Number of nonsmokers who die every year from secondhand smoke.
  • ​10 percent of lung-cancer patients have never smoked cigarettes.

Biggest Risk Factors
Cigarettes are the top cause among smokers. For those who don't light up, exposure to radon—an odorless natural gas that can seep into your home through cracks in the foundation—tops the list.

Your Anti-C Strategy
If you don't smoke, don't start now. Sounds like a no-brainer, but recent research finds 41 percent of women spark up their first cigarette in their twenties or thirties. There's danger no matter what you puff: Cancer rates in those who smoke so-called light or low-tar cigarettes aren't any lower than in those who puff regular cigs. The only fix is to ditch the butts—the sooner, the better. Quitting by your mid-forties can extend your life by about a decade, say researchers. What else you can do:

Monitor Your Breathing. Lung CT scans aren't recommended until age 55, regardless of your smoking history, so see your M.D. if you have a nagging cough, unusual (and persistent) shortness of breath, or wheezing, or if you cough up blood.
Check Radon Levels in Your Home. DIY testing kits are available at home-improvement stores, or you can call a home inspector to perform the service.

SKIN CANCER

  • Every 57 minutes, one person dies of melanoma—the deadliest form of skin cancer.
  • Four percent of all cancers in women are melanomas.
  • Melanoma is the most common cancer among adults ages 25 to 29.
  • One in five people will develop skin cancer in their lifetime.
  • Around 32,000 women will be diagnosed with melanoma this year.

Biggest Risk Factors
Ultraviolet (UV) rays from sun exposure can damage skin cells, which can predispose them to become cancerous later in life, says Abrar Qureshi, M.D., chair of dermatology at Brown University, who led a study showing that getting five or more blistering burns by age 20 raises your melanoma risk by 80 percent. Tanning booths are particularly dangerous because they deliver a hefty dose of UV radiation in a short period of time. Research shows a 20 percent higher melanoma risk in those who use them (compared with people who've never fake-baked)—and double the risk for those who start before age 35.

Your Anti-C Strategy
You can't completely undo skin damage done in your teens, but curbing your current sun exposure can help ward off melanoma, as well as basal and squamous cell skin cancers—two types that are less deadly but more common.

Wear a Wide-Brimmed Hat And Protective Clothing. Thick, tightly woven, synthetic materials offer the most protection, as do clothes labeled UPF, or Ultraviolet Protection Factor.
Slather on a Broad-Spectrum Sunscreen. Use one with an SPF of at least 30, regardless of the weather—the sun's rays can penetrate through clouds and even glass! And ignore "waterproof" labels; there's no such thing, says Qureshi. Instead, apply a shot glass–size amount to your body, and reapply every two hours (more often if you've been in the water or sweating up a storm). Be especially vigilant about your arms and legs, where melanomas are most frequently found in women.
See a Dermatologist About Suspicious Moles. The most concerning are those that morph in color, size, or texture, says Qureshi.

COLON CANCER

  • Five-year survival rates have risen to 65 percent (compared with 49 percent nearly four decades ago).
  • Around 64,000 women are diagnosed every year; about 25,000 die of the disease.
  • Third most common cancer among women

Biggest Risk Factors
Know your family history. Your risk doubles if a sibling or a parent was diagnosed before age 55. That's because roughly one in four cases appears to run in families. And lay off the vices! Women who toss back two or three alcoholic drinks a day are eight percent more at risk than once-a-day drinkers or teetotalers; other studies have found smoking can up your risk of colon cancer by as much as 50 percent.

Your Anti-C Strategy
Screening and treatment advances have sent survival rates soaring, in part because more worrisome polyps are being removed before they become cancerous. Still, unless you have a strong family history, colonoscopies aren't suggested until age 50. So what can you do now?

Listen to Your Gut. Persistent cramps, gas, and abdominal pain are common red flags (as are loose or bloody stools and chronic constipation).
Stay Slim and Active. This suppresses higher blood sugar levels that can spur cancers, says Colditz.
Limit Red, and Processed, Meat. Studies have linked these foods to an increased risk; experts recommend eating no more than three servings (two to three ounces) of red meat, sausages, lunch meats, and bacon per week.

CERVICAL AND OVARIAN CANCERS

  • Around 12,000 women are diagnosed with cervical cancer annually; about 4,000 die from the disease.
  • Around 20,000 are diagnosed annually with ovarian cancer, the most deadly reproductive cancer in women; about 15,000 die from the disease every year.
  • ​11 percent of ovarian cancers are diagnosed in women under age 45.
  • ​91 percent: five-year survival rate for cervical cancer, if it's caught early and localized; nearly half of cases are ID'd at this stage.

Biggest Risk Factors
Sexually transmitted human papillomavirus (HPV) can trigger cervical cancer, with at least a dozen strains linked to the disease. And the ovarian cancer risk is much higher in women who carry a BRCA mutation.

Your Anti-C Strategy
Pap smears can identify precancerous cells on the cervix; experts now recommend getting this test every three years instead of annually. And if you're not 27 yet, the HPV vaccine is still an option. Other strategies:

Know the Signs. Notify your doc about prolonged abdominal bloating (a red flag for ovarian cancer) or suddenly heavy or irregular periods (a symptom of both cancers), says Karen Lu, M.D., chair of the department of gynecologic oncology at the University of Texas MD Anderson Cancer Center.
Check Your History. Women who have the BRCA mutation or a strong family history should consider getting their ovaries removed in their thirties or forties, after they're done having kids, says Lu.
Reconsider the Pill. It can reduce ovarian cancer risk but increase risk of cervical C. Talk to your doc about what's best based on your history.

Weighty Matters
As many as 20 percent of cancer deaths in women are linked to weight gain, and your risk rises with the number on the scale. "Extra pounds may amplify the body's estrogen levels in ways that promote runaway cell growth in hormone-related cancers," says Karen Lu, M.D., of MD Anderson Cancer Center. "In other cancers, such as colon, the theory is that weight-induced elevated blood sugars increase your risk."

If you have pounds to lose, though, don't rely on diet alone. Research shows that inactivity itself increases the risk for several cancers, likely due in part to elevated blood sugar levels. And hitting the gym may not be enough: "One sweat-filled hour won't erase the damage done by prolonged sitting. You need to get up every half-hour from lunch to day's end," says Graham Colditz, M.D., of the Siteman Cancer Center in St. Louis.

Boost your knowledge of breast cancer—and how to prevent it—at WomensHealthMag.com/BreastCancer.

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