If we could go back in time, there are a lot of things we'd do differently. Namely, put big money on George Clooney getting remarried, buy fall boots when they were on sale last spring, and change many, many things about the sexual experiences of years past. From worrying about how you look naked to understanding oral sex etiquette, that time when you were still developing your sexual sea legs was rough.
Now that you're older, your views on sex have probably changed as you learned about what to expect, not expect, or just get over about sex. To find out what some of those priceless lessons were, we asked Women's Health's Facebook followers and other women we know what bedroom advice they wish they had when they were new to the no-pants dance. Read on for their hilarious, interesting, and just plain true responses:
"It's okay to receive oral and not give it back if you don't want to." —Roseanne W.
"You're going to want to get a vibrator in your 20s!" —Moira C.
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"Wear the damn condom—chlamydia isn't a joke." —Clara B.
"Just because lesbian porn turns you on, it doesn't mean you actually like women. Trust me." —Wendy B.
"When it comes to oral, if a guy doesn't return the favor—like, ever—he's not boyfriend material." —Lauren S.
"Don't relate sex to self worth." —Kristin P.
"Sex at a party is not cool. People can hear you, so don't do it." —Anne D.
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"Don't be shy. Try to let go and release your inhibitions." —Cindy L.
"Sex is sex and love is love. It's ok if you love the sex and not the person." —Becca R.
"Know that guys like to make women feel good, so let them." —Lorena G.
"Make some noise!" —Lynn S.
"Throw the word 'should' out the window. Don't be so caught up in what other people think of your sex life. Sex is a lot more fun when you're not as concerned—and really, it's no one else's business anyway!" —Robin H.
"You should pay more attention to sex education and less to porn." —Pri E.
"Don't take sex so seriously! Be comfortable in your own skin and enjoy the ride!" —April D.
"Anal is something you have to work up to. Don't just go for it without any preparation like using his hands first and lots of lube." —Faith E.
"That 'sexy' breathing thing you do isn't very attractive. Cut it out ASAP." —Liz O.
"Don't get mad if you catch your boyfriend looking at porn. It doesn't mean he doesn't want to have sex with you." —Margrete W.
"That wasn't an orgasm." —Jennifer E.
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