Stop clearing your search history: Some women feel more satisfied when you’re open about your porn consumption, finds new research from the University of Calgary.
Hiding your habit can seem deceitful to her, or even make her feel like she’s being cheated on, says study author Marley N. Resch, M.Sc. But owning up can help her sense she’s in a secure, honest relationship, Resch says.
Just don’t overshare: In the study, relationship satisfaction tanked with excessive honesty. Admitting you occasionally surf for smut is fine, but if you go into deep detail—like your preference for big breasts, or how much time you spend online—she may feel like she has to compete with the vixens on screen, Resch says.
Not sure how to broach the subject? Ask her how she feels about porn. This can serve as a gateway into a more open conversation, says Resch.
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